Are you one of those people who are always suffering setbacks? Do you sometimes feel that the universe is out to get you? Do you ask yourself “why do I have bad luck every time?“
Let show a secret into you :
Your luck is no worse and no better, than anyone else’s. It just feels that way. But there are two simple things you can do which will reverse your feelings of being unlucky and change your luck.
1. Stop believing that what happens in your life is down to the vagaries of luck, supernatural forces, malevolent other people, or anything else outside yourself.
Psychologists call this “external locus of control.” Where people believe that they can do nothing personally to change their lives.
Because of this, they submit passively to whatever comes—while complaining that it doesn’t match their hopes.
Most successful people take the opposite view. They have “internal locus of control.” They believe that important is not the event itself, but how you respond to it.
2. Remember that whatever you pay attention to grows in your mind.
If you focus on what’s going wrong in your life especially if you see it as “bad luck” you can do nothing about.
In a short time, you’ll become so convinced that everything is against you that you’ll notice more and more instances where this appears to be true.
The “losers” in life are those who are convinced they will fail before they start anything.
To improve your fortune and have “good luck”, first decide that what happens is nearly always down to you. It may even be a lot easier than you thought.